According to the National Association for Self-Esteem, lack of self-adoration in young women leads to "poor choices that can sabotage success and interfere with healthy maturity". Healthy self-esteem ensures success in endeavours, frees women to make wise lifestyle choices and helps them build and maintain healthy relationships.The belief that you deserve to be happy is more powerful than most people realise. Having self-esteem means that you believe you are capable of meeting challenges as they occur, and that you have the right and are worthy of being happy. A woman can never go wrong if she allocates enough value and love to herself. If young women all over could learn to love and value themselves,they would think twice before indulging in harmful practices. Self-adoration cultivates a respect for oneself, a respect that will never allow one to indulge in drug abuse,prostitution or abortion and other menaces that exist in our societies. More women would have the strength to walk away from the hands of men who don't treat them right.
There are plenty examples of women who have walked from powerful men and made a names for themselves, the likes of Hillary Clinton or closer to home Nkosazana Dlamini-Zuma,ex-wife of SA President, the power that motivated these women is that of self-love,a belief that they did not deserve crude conditions and they could become better human beings on their own. A woman can never go wrong if she allocates enough value and love to herself. The issue of self-love is not just a phsycological or emotional issue,it involves physical well-being as well. I'm sure a good number of people would agree with me that some people just dont seem to care about their look. As women we are affected by the way we look on the outward,if you look good ,you feel good and if you feel good,you are bound to shine. Self-neglect is an indicator of the absence of self-love,the way one looks says a lot about how they feel about themselves! Once you have have inco-operated self-love in your life,you are bound to look and feel like a million dollars(trust me on this one!.
Remember loving yourself is the greatest love of all!.