Showing posts with label Chioma Nneji. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Chioma Nneji. Show all posts

Tuesday, 24 January 2012

Women have Dreams too!

I’ve been away from London for about 3 weeks to visit my homeland Nigeria. I had so much fun that I actually cried at the Murtala Mohammed Airport in Nigeria (drama queen behaviour haha). Anyways hope everyone is okay! During my stay I had the opportunity to visit a village called Akpugo in the eastern part of Nigeria, where I met some of the loveliest people. However, one of the main things I discovered from interacting with many of the women in Akpugo was the general preference for men to be engaged in higher education and skilled labour.

For the young girls in developing countries, school might be an option for a few years, but most girls are pulled out at the age of 9 or 10 when they're useful enough to work all day at home. Nine million more girls than boys miss out on school every year, according to UNICEF. While their brothers continue to go to school or pursue their hobbies and play, they join the women to do the bulk of the housework.

Housework in developing countries consists of continuous, difficult physical labour. A girl is likely to work from before daybreak until the light drains away. She walks barefoot long distances several times a day carrying heavy buckets of water, most likely polluted, just to keep her family alive. She cleans, grinds corn, gathers fuel, tends to the fields, bathes her younger siblings, and prepares meals until she sits down to her own after all the men in the family have eaten. Most families can't afford modern appliances, so her tasks must be done by hand—crushing corn into meal with heavy rocks, scrubbing laundry against rough stones, kneading bread and cooking gruel over a blistering open fire. There is no time left in the day to learn to read and write or to play with friends. She collapses exhausted each night, ready to wake up the next morning to start another long workday.

Most of this labour is performed without recognition or reward. UN statistics show that although women produce half the world's food, they own only 1 per cent of its farmland. In most African and Asian countries, women's work isn't even considered real labour. Should a woman take a job, she is expected to keep up all her responsibilities at home in addition to her new ones, with no extra help. Women's labour goes overlooked, even though it is crucial to the survival of each family.





Women and Men are equal and women should never be treated as second class. Women have rights, dreams and aspirations! We cannot continue to overlook the way in which poorer women are being classified and undermined around the world we live in!

Sunday, 18 December 2011

India’s Deadliest Secret

Technology can be a gift and a curse!
Later on today, I will be off to the hometown I grew up in; Lagos, Nigeria! I’m pretty excited as I haven’t left London in a long while and it’s also very cold up here too.
Anyways, just before I leave, I thought I should share India’s deadliest secret (actually not really a secret anymore) with those of you who do not know yet.
‘’To call a woman the weaker sex is a libel, it is man’s injustice to women’’ – Mohandas Ghandi
Did you know how much level of hatred female children are exposed to in India?
Do you know how many female children in India get aborted after an UltraSound?
Approximately 1 million females killed every year because of Gender Preference towards male children. Fifty thousand female foetuses are aborted every month in India and a staggering 40 million girls are missing since 1980 due to the negative treatment towards females in India. Indian’s any many other cultures have a history of dowry payment (which is small or large payment of cash from the male/females family to the in-laws before a marriage ceremony can take place). In India’s case, a large sum of money is paid from the female’s family to the males before the ceremony commences. Hence, parents see females as a financial burden to them as dowry payments often lead to families to debt bondages. More interestingly,’ Gendercide’ is not only done by the poor but also the rich have become increasing interested in performing this act for the same reason as the poor. Now in India, for every 300 girls, there are 1000 boys, and women are still seen as having no value to families!
I’D LEAVE YOU TO WATCH THIS INTERESTING SHORT VIDEO WHICH I FOUND:




Women are vital as they are needed for the continuity of a man’s lineage! Without a woman, there is no man as every woman was born from a man. So women have a lot of value and should be respected rather than neglected. Technology has been useful in advancing our understanding of nature, but now its usage is becoming corrupt and harmful to lives of many women today! I believe laws should be strongly enforced by the government against all these wrong doings towards India’s mothers of tomorrow.
In case you do not hear from me in a while, Happy festive season and new year in advance!

Wednesday, 7 December 2011

Women can do Better!

There is this famous saying that goes ‘What a man can do, A woman can do Better!’


BUT, how is this possible? When almost every Africa culture encourages male child preference and early in the life of a female child in a typical African home she notices that her male siblings are preferred to her and treated specially with access to business skills, education, healthcare and food provision. In many places, females are either denied education or are not allowed to have the same quality of education as males because it is believed that educating females is an economic waste in that she will leave the family someday and become another man’s responsibility. However, there must be several ways out of this gender bias cycle that is prominent in most developing countries today. One very important remedy that has worked in several countries like Liberia and India where there is an increasing engagement of women from diverse backgrounds to participate in job and life training sessions that would help them form their own businesses, protect their families from diseases and partake in decision making processes that affect their economy.

The video below shows the importance of overcoming these barriers to making women play an important role in regenerating and rebuilding development in Liberia. The video by the produced by the World Bank highlights the positive effects of using practical job training, business development and life training skills in empowering women from poorer communities that are uneducated and willing to gain knowledge and learn skills that were previous.

[Video here]


One interesting fact that I perceived from watching the video was that these women were not only interested in the economic advantages that they earned from these practical training sessions but also the fact that they all seemed happier, liberated and have better dreams for their future.



-Chioma Nneji (Chi-Chi)
Source: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9rP4-b1FN_g&feature=related

Sunday, 27 November 2011

Women in most developing countries are regarded as inferior to men: A Case of Niger Delta in Nigeria.

Women in many parts of the world, play an active role in the informal sector of the economy through the sale of less expensive goods to cater for the poor and some of the rich. The women in Nigeria and most developing countries have been affected by religions, cultures and traditions that place enormous emphasis on women being less empowered and under the control of their husbands, brothers and even sons in some cultures.

In particular, the women of the Niger Delta local communities in Nigeria have been victims of gender based discriminatory practices for many years now. Oil exploitation activities has destroyed their sources of livelihood as they depend mostly on fishing and farming, which have been exposed to pollution through oil spillage and other environmentally harmful practices in lands and creeks. These women are also underrepresented in the strategic heights of politics, government, economic, educational institutions and employment, particularly in the oil industry. In the rural areas even to this day women are only supposed to be seen and not heard.

The result of this discrimination has led to rising incidences of female prostitution, teenage pregnancies, sexually transmitted diseases, HIV/AIDS and broken. This is because women and their daughters who lack financial and social welfare end up in the hands of some government officials, multinational oil workers and militants.  These oppressors have often been very brutal to the women, behaving like animals as they take advantage of the poor hungry illiterate women and girls of the Niger Delta, by making them victims of their lust forcefully in the form of modern slavery.


This is an interesting short video clip I found on youtube explaining on the ongoing situation in the Niger Delta local communities:  



So in order to address these problems it would be useful for you to:

·         Use this medium as a platform to increase awareness of the on-going problems not only within the region and its local province but also on a larger scale through support from nation and international bodies.

·         Suggest ways in which the DeltaWomen can improve ways to educate women on these issues whilst providing new training materials to improve their skills.

·         Suggest ways in which we can improve mobilisation and participation of women in the decision making processes that affect their communities.

Please do Spread the Word and feel free to leave your suggestions! Have a great impact on the treatment of women today and in the future!

-Chioma Nneji (Chi Chi)

Sources
Emmanuel Osewe Akubo (2011): The Travail of Women in the Crises in the Niger Delta Area.
Sofiri Joab-Peterside (2009): Survey on women and livelihoods in the Niger Delta: An overview of women’s economic activities in oil producing communities in Akwa Ibom, Bayelsa and Rivers States.