The
poverty, illiteracy, fanaticism, and lack of enlightenment are all factors of suppression
against women and it’s all due to the culture. In Egypt the socio-economic conditions result
in violence and that’s when the vicious cycle of oppressions
started.
In
many conservative societies the family honour lies with the women, and the
basic interactions with men outside wedlock in the lower class society brings
shame that has no remedies except death known as honour killing, the scary
thing about it, is that even a rumour that she spoke to someone else can get
her killed.
People
tend to circumcise their daughters to prevent them from doing the wrong, and
they forget that this is a method of abusing her and her rights.
“I
have circumcised all 7 daughters, this is what we do it to protect our honour,
we are poor people, and her honour is the only and most important thing she has”
said Ahmed Abbas, an illiterate farmer, working on a field to feed his family.
Abbas
explained that this is what religion has queried him to do, and he’s done it to
prevent the harm of a mistake.
Women
in Egypt are considered a minority, they seem to lack freedom, voice, rights,
and all others against men. They are alienated due to their circumstances and
have been finding it hard to win the battle.
There
are a lot of bounds placed on the rights of women and the notion of male
patriarchy that ground these limits. Any Egyptian Muslim woman is deprived from
the basics since her birth until her death.
Ever
since she’s a little girl and her father has the option of circumcision, a lot
of lower class educated or uneducated fathers circumcise their daughter in fear
that she’d misbehave and lead the family to suffer.
“They
are girls, I can’t afford mistakes, and this is why they don’t go to school
they sit at home, help out with their mother, or come out and help out with the
crops.” Abbas added
These
girls have been deprived by an order from their father to stay home with the
mother or come out with them
Soad
Mohamed, A maid working to support her family said “he can do whatever he wants
with me, hitting me is a way of discipline, it’s okay because that’s what god
said.”
“He’s
the man he has the luxury to say and do anything he wants, even if I don’t like
it, I will have to accept it because he’s my man, and I can’t do without him.”
Mohamed added.
Women
are not allowed to have custody of their children once they get a divorce if
they reach the age of twelve. They’re not allowed to have military jobs,
running for presidency never was their thing, but this is the first year where
there are female candidates.
Women
are not allowed to marry within three months of their divorce, they’re not allowed
to become police officers, exceptions are the tourism police, they’re not
allowed to pray in the main halls of mosques, but only in the gardens. They
can’t leave the country without their husband’s consent and of course they can
only get a divorce with their husbands’ approval, even though there’s a new law
for women to seek divorce but they make it extremely difficult to implement it. Egyptian Muslim women get half of the
inheritance of their brothers.
Monica Elashy
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